The lessons we are given
First, I will have to say that identifying what are your own lessons you came here to learn about is often not easy to identify from all the everyday things that make life less than smooth. This in itself is a challenge. But as you go, you may find repeating situations often enough to assume it a sign to take a long look at why is this going on. For me, I got to that point over and over, until last year I got support for myself. Because you can't really change someone else's behavior. That is their lesson. I did the emotional clearing, but as we went along, for all my understanding of clearing, the other person has narcissistic tendency's. Which meant controlling, drama, just hard for me. And unhealthy. And Draining, tremendously. I learned that you have to detach, be cordial, congenial, and then walk away. Most narcissistic personalities will not chan...