I mean it when I say clear out the draining people in your life

I have felt so much better. But I really do miss the friend I had to let go. If only it had worked out a different way.

I did try, I went back and was honest with her about why. Very specific, with out accusations, or rancor. I spelled it all out in a long email. I ended with saying I had really enjoyed our conversations on other subjects, like the ecomony, and what we had each heard on Coast to Coast radio. I also really like shopping in thrift stores with her, But it came to naught.


She has made no attempt to come back and discuss it with me, so I felt like I was dithering on by myself. And I did have a grieving period, kind of like a divorce.

But since then, I have moved on, and see her as doing well.

I thank her for all the fun times we had, the support when I was down, but not the other stuff, though I can see it as my homework. And it came to be the things I learned I did not want in my life. That was the lesson.

So I have gone on. Maybe someday, she will see that she has to do her own homework and find herself amidst all of the baggage she drags along with her, and truly drop it all and walk on without it, a happier person.

A lighter higher frequency goes with learning your lessons and then moving on.

Enough said.

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