Coming to terms with the steps of Emotional Clearing
I have gotten into the habit of using this step by step formula the last ten years. I have presented this format to my Reiki students when they have completed the 2nd degree due to the clearing that occurs in the emotional body of the energy field surrounding them.
We all come here to learn, we are energy being in human bodies. But to become closer to ---and here I will offer up several names for the Divine Loving Intelligence that we are part of. God, Goddess, Great Spirit, Field of Existence, Holiest of Holies, Universal Spirit, Ku,the list is a long as there are human being who have given names. It is there, it is real, and it is not "up there somewhere" it is right here all around us, all the time.
But the thing is we often just forget it, and get caught up in our own little trips. Why? Well a lot of our so called trips are actually the lessons we made to learn when we came here. Whether or not you wish to believe in re-incarnation, it is fine, but we do come back.
And we learn, we (if we remember to, this is the trick) we resolve, then our frequency in our energy fields increases. Finally there is a point we stay over there, we have done all our homework and we have graduated.
Our energy fields contain much more than just the pretty colors a clarevoyant who can read the field can see, unless she is a very well trained one. We carry much more. Often we develop blocks, which show up as dark spots, and these areas can eventually cause illness in the very slow moving particle body we call our physical body. Or mental illness, etc.
So I am once again going to use myself as the example. Right now things are accelerating as time is speeding up as this planet moving into alignment with the Galactic Center. There are all sorts of conflicts coming up between people, nations, and the lessons all of us haven't done are now in our face, beating down our doors. Life as we know it will change, I do not believe in all the fear mongering that is going on, but do see a hard time coming with the ultimate end being a better kind of life for those here, not a doomsday.
I am no different from anybody else in this respect. My guides have been prompting me to work through this situation that I first wrote of two posts back. And yes it got the response that was anticipated. So
in light of that here we go. I thank my Guides for their support here. And....
I wish to thank the Nibiruan Council for providing these steps. And I want to explain my part in this.
As I am doing the clearing here, no one else. I can only work on myself, no one else. It is up to everyone else to do this. Someone can help direct you, but as you will see only you can do this.
I also want to point out that I am providing a role for them too as part of our agreements before we came. I have done so out of love for them.
Step One, what is the lesson?
For me this has been the fact that I have so eagerly accepted what I wanted to believe was the
total truth about a family member. That she has mental illness, that she has been a terrible mother, that her mother has had to deal with horrible events and conflicts due to this persons mental unstability. Now this is part of my life blueprint, and it has kept coming up over and over again throughout my adult life, since this person was born and became an adolescent.
Her behavior of losing control made me want to believe the worst, my lesson was that I simply wasn't willing to hear her side of the conflict between her and her mother.
Step Two, what is the contract?
Ok, now here there are two contracts. One between this younger family member, and one between her mother. This is not unusual, there will be more than one contract between yourself and several people to help you learn this particular lesson you wanted to learn. So on this basis I know of two, and I will have to release and clear two people. But for this post I will work on them both as one for example.
So my contracts with both of them pertain to something that all three of us needed to learn from this conflict.
Perhaps for one it is the flip side of what I am having to learn, and the third something more in the line of forgiveness and moving forward. But remember the other two must do their own work on this.
Step Three, Role
What is the role they are playing to act out their part of the contract?
Well to start with I want to say, none of us are playing victims here. All of us have been and are willing participants in this scenario. One has been the person who has been my source of mis-information which has come through her filters, and the other has been this angry person who is reactive, responding to
the other's ones behavior which most likely is behind the scenes intended to provoke. So one is going to provoke and the other is going to react and from this almost lifelong pattern this has become a fixture in their lives as a way of relating. And my information comes from the one doing the provoking. So during most of this conflict these has been there roles.
Step Four, Aspect
What is the aspect of myself this person is reflecting back to me?
Ok, now this has been the hard part. We have a hard time with looking at ourselves, but here goes.
The aspect here is my willingness to believe the worst of the person who has been the reactive one. And the most horrible thing has been that I have spent time with her, with in the family frame-work and never once allowed myself to see that perhaps everything I had been told, never once did I even try and hear her side of the story. Not once. I simply had joined into these really unpleasant discussions of her behavior, her moral character, her lack of parenting skills with her children.
And here I have been working on trying to expand my own way of thinking and understanding this world, humanity, seeing the bigger picture for all of us, trying to see Truth. When right here in my backyard as far as my family goes, I was a willing participant in a long running slander campaign.
The horrible truth has been that I am not so enlightened, I shut my own intuition down even as it was screaming me to stop and take a hard look. Why, because I had this close sisterly relationship with the one I have tagged the provoker in this very long hard lesson. So I never questioned, and quite willingly played along.
Step Five, Gift
So I have had to ask the Guides on this one. What are the gifts I have been given by both these other people who have played their roles in this? People who love you will be the ones who have made this contract with you before you all have come here.
Does this surprise you? It shouldn't. We come here as groups, soul groups and we come to learn and complete what we need to. And we make these contracts, and most often these other souls end up as our family members while we are here. This is part of their gift to us, that they are willing to do this for us.
And we do the same for them.
So to bring me to see this very unpleasant side of myself, this has taken many years. A lot of time for them to do this for me. The gift here is that I now can finally see it. No kidding. For all of us, other family members included. We are all at different stages of learning compassion, seeing the lessons in their totality. But the gift from both of my loved ones here was that I finally got it. Two sides to every story, always look at anything in it's entire setting.
Step Six, Acceptance
Can I accept the role the other person has played, along with their actions, to help me learn this
lesson?
This is very difficult. As hard as taking a long hard look at myself. I am working on this one right now. What I have gotten to is understanding that she and her daughter have given me this lesson. And while they are here in their own bodies as who they are, they both are struggling with lessons yet. Homework to do. Acceptance means unconditional love and compassion, LOVE in action. Without judgment. Period.
This is the hard part. I am struggling here to be honest. My higher self does it easily, my guides let me be on this one. They know I am struggling. I have been angry, at myself, at one of the other two people, and in the past the other one also. We are all struggling here, and that is the part I need to remember. I am doing the clearing, but this is a contract of lesson learning. My heart is dong a lot of forgiving right now, releasing angry
feelings and my head is working on looking at my own upbringing, things set into motion from the past to the present. Here seeing this, compassion lies, so does forgiveness.
Step Seven, Allowance,
Can I allow myself to let go of any anger towards the other person who played the role that
helped me learn the lesson?
Well, at this point I getting there. I am doing allowance for one. I see that I would not have seen this really unpleasnt aspect of myself if I had not had her to enact the lesson. Allowance is part of unconditional love. And compassion, and is part of the Love in action path we have to undertake to get through and understand emotional clearing.
I have to understand the other person who is part of this is very angry right now. Well both of them are , one at me, the other at the first person. A lot of anger here. However anger has a purpose, it lights a fire in the emotional body. But it is how the fire is used that is the most important thing.
Out of control, it does harm. Used with intent it can motivate change. I am opting for change, at the expense at this moment of losing a life long close friendship with a family member. I find my own anger has become a force for trying to make change. In myself, and hopefully between two family members into a healthier relationship, clearing out this lesson from different angles for all of us.
So in that way, I find I can let go of anger. And I have to keep reminding myself that they will take a lot of time to get there. And things may go on as they have for a length of time. But since I have been given this gift of seeing a not so nice part of myself, then I can accept this. Just that I will not be a part of it anymore. Just one who loves both of the others in this lesson.
Step Eight, Release
Can I release this person from blame?
Another toughie. Ok, so I am coming out the other end. I am not a victim, but have been an active participant here. I have had some huge epithanies about myself, and seeing patterns within the other two people. So I do release them from blame and hope for the best. In my own interests which means protecting my own physical and mental health. I have done and am doing certain things to stay whole.
I love them both and wish them well, but cannot do anything more for either of them, but I do release them both from blame. I have learned a very big lesson, so gratitude here instead.
Step Nine, Kindness
Now that I have released this person, can I be kind to him/her?
A three part, this question finalizes the release of the other person. It is pretty intense emotionaly and physically. A very hard step. The more emotionally charged the issues and lesson have been the more intense this one step is.
The release comes on a physical level, through what the Nibiruans call the 'High Heart" which is the Thymus gland. You will feel it. I am feeling it, but I have to go back again and repeat all of this at this point.
Aside from the fact of the intense emotions involved, you need to come to gratitude and compassion for the other people involved here. I am working on two at once, not easy. One I have had to work a little harder, back and forth in this formula.
But I am very aware that these two loved ones stepped forward and volunteered for this, to play these roles, and it is not just for me, but for other family members too. We have all suffered through all of this in order to see and learn and clear this out. The other two have suffered and will do so for a while longer, but their contract with me over this lesson has been completed. I am understanding it.
My only hope is that soon they will both complete and clear this lesson. I love them for allowing me to come to this point. Life never stands still, so I can move on, with knowing more will come. But I do release them both. I do appreciate this act of compassion on their part, and also accept that they will not understand what the hell I am talking about. One most likely will not at all for a while. but it is ok.
I do.
So this whole formula of emotional clearing can take several times through, it provides the steps, the though provoking and emotional work through all of humantiy needs to clear out those emotional blocks all of us have come up against.
The thing is YOU HAVE TO DO IT YOURSELF, FOR YOURSELF, NO ONE ELSE CAN DO IT FOR YOU. THEY CAN PROVIDE THE LESSONS, AND DO IT OUT OF LOVE, BUT IT IS YOUR HOMEWORK!!!!!
We all come here to learn, we are energy being in human bodies. But to become closer to ---and here I will offer up several names for the Divine Loving Intelligence that we are part of. God, Goddess, Great Spirit, Field of Existence, Holiest of Holies, Universal Spirit, Ku,the list is a long as there are human being who have given names. It is there, it is real, and it is not "up there somewhere" it is right here all around us, all the time.
But the thing is we often just forget it, and get caught up in our own little trips. Why? Well a lot of our so called trips are actually the lessons we made to learn when we came here. Whether or not you wish to believe in re-incarnation, it is fine, but we do come back.
And we learn, we (if we remember to, this is the trick) we resolve, then our frequency in our energy fields increases. Finally there is a point we stay over there, we have done all our homework and we have graduated.
Our energy fields contain much more than just the pretty colors a clarevoyant who can read the field can see, unless she is a very well trained one. We carry much more. Often we develop blocks, which show up as dark spots, and these areas can eventually cause illness in the very slow moving particle body we call our physical body. Or mental illness, etc.
So I am once again going to use myself as the example. Right now things are accelerating as time is speeding up as this planet moving into alignment with the Galactic Center. There are all sorts of conflicts coming up between people, nations, and the lessons all of us haven't done are now in our face, beating down our doors. Life as we know it will change, I do not believe in all the fear mongering that is going on, but do see a hard time coming with the ultimate end being a better kind of life for those here, not a doomsday.
I am no different from anybody else in this respect. My guides have been prompting me to work through this situation that I first wrote of two posts back. And yes it got the response that was anticipated. So
in light of that here we go. I thank my Guides for their support here. And....
I wish to thank the Nibiruan Council for providing these steps. And I want to explain my part in this.
As I am doing the clearing here, no one else. I can only work on myself, no one else. It is up to everyone else to do this. Someone can help direct you, but as you will see only you can do this.
I also want to point out that I am providing a role for them too as part of our agreements before we came. I have done so out of love for them.
Step One, what is the lesson?
For me this has been the fact that I have so eagerly accepted what I wanted to believe was the
total truth about a family member. That she has mental illness, that she has been a terrible mother, that her mother has had to deal with horrible events and conflicts due to this persons mental unstability. Now this is part of my life blueprint, and it has kept coming up over and over again throughout my adult life, since this person was born and became an adolescent.
Her behavior of losing control made me want to believe the worst, my lesson was that I simply wasn't willing to hear her side of the conflict between her and her mother.
Step Two, what is the contract?
Ok, now here there are two contracts. One between this younger family member, and one between her mother. This is not unusual, there will be more than one contract between yourself and several people to help you learn this particular lesson you wanted to learn. So on this basis I know of two, and I will have to release and clear two people. But for this post I will work on them both as one for example.
So my contracts with both of them pertain to something that all three of us needed to learn from this conflict.
Perhaps for one it is the flip side of what I am having to learn, and the third something more in the line of forgiveness and moving forward. But remember the other two must do their own work on this.
Step Three, Role
What is the role they are playing to act out their part of the contract?
Well to start with I want to say, none of us are playing victims here. All of us have been and are willing participants in this scenario. One has been the person who has been my source of mis-information which has come through her filters, and the other has been this angry person who is reactive, responding to
the other's ones behavior which most likely is behind the scenes intended to provoke. So one is going to provoke and the other is going to react and from this almost lifelong pattern this has become a fixture in their lives as a way of relating. And my information comes from the one doing the provoking. So during most of this conflict these has been there roles.
Step Four, Aspect
What is the aspect of myself this person is reflecting back to me?
Ok, now this has been the hard part. We have a hard time with looking at ourselves, but here goes.
The aspect here is my willingness to believe the worst of the person who has been the reactive one. And the most horrible thing has been that I have spent time with her, with in the family frame-work and never once allowed myself to see that perhaps everything I had been told, never once did I even try and hear her side of the story. Not once. I simply had joined into these really unpleasant discussions of her behavior, her moral character, her lack of parenting skills with her children.
And here I have been working on trying to expand my own way of thinking and understanding this world, humanity, seeing the bigger picture for all of us, trying to see Truth. When right here in my backyard as far as my family goes, I was a willing participant in a long running slander campaign.
The horrible truth has been that I am not so enlightened, I shut my own intuition down even as it was screaming me to stop and take a hard look. Why, because I had this close sisterly relationship with the one I have tagged the provoker in this very long hard lesson. So I never questioned, and quite willingly played along.
Step Five, Gift
So I have had to ask the Guides on this one. What are the gifts I have been given by both these other people who have played their roles in this? People who love you will be the ones who have made this contract with you before you all have come here.
Does this surprise you? It shouldn't. We come here as groups, soul groups and we come to learn and complete what we need to. And we make these contracts, and most often these other souls end up as our family members while we are here. This is part of their gift to us, that they are willing to do this for us.
And we do the same for them.
So to bring me to see this very unpleasant side of myself, this has taken many years. A lot of time for them to do this for me. The gift here is that I now can finally see it. No kidding. For all of us, other family members included. We are all at different stages of learning compassion, seeing the lessons in their totality. But the gift from both of my loved ones here was that I finally got it. Two sides to every story, always look at anything in it's entire setting.
Step Six, Acceptance
Can I accept the role the other person has played, along with their actions, to help me learn this
lesson?
This is very difficult. As hard as taking a long hard look at myself. I am working on this one right now. What I have gotten to is understanding that she and her daughter have given me this lesson. And while they are here in their own bodies as who they are, they both are struggling with lessons yet. Homework to do. Acceptance means unconditional love and compassion, LOVE in action. Without judgment. Period.
This is the hard part. I am struggling here to be honest. My higher self does it easily, my guides let me be on this one. They know I am struggling. I have been angry, at myself, at one of the other two people, and in the past the other one also. We are all struggling here, and that is the part I need to remember. I am doing the clearing, but this is a contract of lesson learning. My heart is dong a lot of forgiving right now, releasing angry
feelings and my head is working on looking at my own upbringing, things set into motion from the past to the present. Here seeing this, compassion lies, so does forgiveness.
Step Seven, Allowance,
Can I allow myself to let go of any anger towards the other person who played the role that
helped me learn the lesson?
Well, at this point I getting there. I am doing allowance for one. I see that I would not have seen this really unpleasnt aspect of myself if I had not had her to enact the lesson. Allowance is part of unconditional love. And compassion, and is part of the Love in action path we have to undertake to get through and understand emotional clearing.
I have to understand the other person who is part of this is very angry right now. Well both of them are , one at me, the other at the first person. A lot of anger here. However anger has a purpose, it lights a fire in the emotional body. But it is how the fire is used that is the most important thing.
Out of control, it does harm. Used with intent it can motivate change. I am opting for change, at the expense at this moment of losing a life long close friendship with a family member. I find my own anger has become a force for trying to make change. In myself, and hopefully between two family members into a healthier relationship, clearing out this lesson from different angles for all of us.
So in that way, I find I can let go of anger. And I have to keep reminding myself that they will take a lot of time to get there. And things may go on as they have for a length of time. But since I have been given this gift of seeing a not so nice part of myself, then I can accept this. Just that I will not be a part of it anymore. Just one who loves both of the others in this lesson.
Step Eight, Release
Can I release this person from blame?
Another toughie. Ok, so I am coming out the other end. I am not a victim, but have been an active participant here. I have had some huge epithanies about myself, and seeing patterns within the other two people. So I do release them from blame and hope for the best. In my own interests which means protecting my own physical and mental health. I have done and am doing certain things to stay whole.
I love them both and wish them well, but cannot do anything more for either of them, but I do release them both from blame. I have learned a very big lesson, so gratitude here instead.
Step Nine, Kindness
Now that I have released this person, can I be kind to him/her?
A three part, this question finalizes the release of the other person. It is pretty intense emotionaly and physically. A very hard step. The more emotionally charged the issues and lesson have been the more intense this one step is.
The release comes on a physical level, through what the Nibiruans call the 'High Heart" which is the Thymus gland. You will feel it. I am feeling it, but I have to go back again and repeat all of this at this point.
Aside from the fact of the intense emotions involved, you need to come to gratitude and compassion for the other people involved here. I am working on two at once, not easy. One I have had to work a little harder, back and forth in this formula.
But I am very aware that these two loved ones stepped forward and volunteered for this, to play these roles, and it is not just for me, but for other family members too. We have all suffered through all of this in order to see and learn and clear this out. The other two have suffered and will do so for a while longer, but their contract with me over this lesson has been completed. I am understanding it.
My only hope is that soon they will both complete and clear this lesson. I love them for allowing me to come to this point. Life never stands still, so I can move on, with knowing more will come. But I do release them both. I do appreciate this act of compassion on their part, and also accept that they will not understand what the hell I am talking about. One most likely will not at all for a while. but it is ok.
I do.
So this whole formula of emotional clearing can take several times through, it provides the steps, the though provoking and emotional work through all of humantiy needs to clear out those emotional blocks all of us have come up against.
The thing is YOU HAVE TO DO IT YOURSELF, FOR YOURSELF, NO ONE ELSE CAN DO IT FOR YOU. THEY CAN PROVIDE THE LESSONS, AND DO IT OUT OF LOVE, BUT IT IS YOUR HOMEWORK!!!!!
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